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How does God view men and women? Different but equal before Him. Thus they are both made in God’s image with equal dignity and value.
Such is the worth given to women that God tells men to love their wives as Christ loved His church ( Ephesians God created sex for many reasons
including procreation (Genesis He makes it very clear that sexual passions and desires should be controlled and that the body is not meant for sexual immorality of any type (1 Corinthians Inside marriage, rape violates the biblical command for the husband to love His wife as Christ loves the Church and love is not based on coercion but is ‘patient
and kind’ (1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Romans 13:10). They are also to love their wives as they love and respect their very
own bodies ( Ephesians Rape
inside or outside marriage is an act of violence and God makes it clear that violence is wrong (Proverbs
Rape
God is not silent on the issue of rape. The Bible documents a whole range of human actions, including rape. It is a diverse book including history, poetry and letters. The Bible is primarily the means through which God has declared who He is and His means (the death and resurrection of Christ) of saving people from his own righteous judgment which would otherwise condemn them to hell. Through this, however, we understand the moral standards expected of those created in His image. These standards are declared in both declarations of what we should and shouldn’t do and in the documentation of the consequences of our sinful nature.
Please be aware that what follows may ‘trigger’ for some readers. In 2 Samuel 13 the rape of a woman by her half-brother is documented. Amnon declared love for his sister Tamar and set up a situation whereby, what was merely lust, would be expressed in rape. Tamar had no witnesses since Amnon had sent his servants away. After the rape, his so-called ‘love’ turned to hatred and he sent her away knowing that she would now face destitution because of no longer being a virgin and therefore being unable to marry. Judges 19 records the gang rape of a woman. Whilst against what God intended (Genesis 2:24), Israelite society allowed for a man to have a concubine-a woman who had the role of a wife in both sexual and household matters, but with few of the privileges such as inheritance rights for her children. Travelling from the concubine’s parental home back to her master’s home, an elderly man invited them to stay overnight. During the evening, what the Bible describes as ‘the wicked men of the city’, surrounded the house and demanded that the elderly man’s male guest be brought out so that they could have sexual relations with him. Rather than taking a courageous stance, the man offered both his daughter and the concubine to them. Eventually both men agreed to send out the concubine who was raped throughout the night until near death from her injuries. By morning, left at the doorway of the house where the elderly man and her master slept, she was dead. In Genesis 19, These three examples are documented in the Bible to reveal the depravity of man in his sinful nature. Whilst God has revealed Himself in creation, people ignore Him and in doing so their hearts become increasingly ‘darkened’: ‘Therefore, God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity …and to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done.’ (Romans 1). These actual and would-be rapes contravene God’s purposes regarding sexual relationships between a man and woman as considered earlier and express the essential sinfulness of mankind. Whilst we live in a fallen world, our depravity will be revealed in many ways. Nevertheless, God has not left us without hope (Christ and You)
Does God justify rape? This book continues to document the history of God’s
chosen people: In Deuteronomy we read of how Moses then reminded the
people of God’s moral laws in the concise form of the Ten Commandments and numerous civil and ceremonial regulations.
The distinction between moral, civil and ceremonial
laws in the Old Testament is fundamental to an understanding of the verses concerning rape. In Deuteronomy Chapter 22, various laws are expressed including those relating to sexual behaviour. Verses 28-29 reads: If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and is discovered, he shall pay the girl’s father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the girl, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives. Initially this verse may seem difficult to understand, let alone accept. If Christians believe that the Bible is the inspired Word of God, then is He showing no real concern for the rape victim? Is she really an object owned by a male head of household whose monetary compensation, rather than her welfare, is the prime concern? Marrying a rapist! Is this not the final ‘nail in coffin’ of a woman’s dignity? As stated previously, to really make sense of such verses one has to consider the distinction between the moral, civil and ceremonial laws revealed initially in the Old Testament: · The Moral Law is the guidance for living which expresses the moral character of God. These are found most clearly in the Ten Commandments. These laws are binding across time and place. We however are unable to fully keep such laws in our own strength. These laws reveal the sin that, until we are given salvation in Christ, imprisons us. · The Ceremonial Law is the guidance concerning the many rituals undertaken as sacrifice in order to cleanse people, before God, of their sin. Hebrews 10:1 tells us, “The law is only a shadow of the good things that are coming--not the realities themselves.’. These rules were a representation of the future sacrifice of Christ for the sins of all who would believe in him. For Christians, now Christ has come to earth, died and been resurrected, these rituals are no longer needed. The perfect sacrifice has now been presented to God the Father. · The Civil Law is the guidance given to Back to the verse: God’s rules concerning the dealing with this particular type of rape offence reflect, firstly, His moral laws concerning sex outside of marriage and the need for self control. The man has obviously infringed these. He will be punished. The punishment however reflects, secondly, the civil laws relevant and applicable in that particular society, at that particular point in time. They would not be applicable today though the essence of the immorality of rape remains. The punishment: An inability to ever be freed from the responsibility of materially providing for the woman and any child which might have been the result of the rape. He has no choice but to marry her and to then obey all the requirements of the marriage bond. Women today, in a society where marriage is no longer absolutely essential for physical survival and social acceptance, would not of course benefit at all from such an arrangement. Women at that time however would suffer not only the indignities of rape, but the indignity of never being accepted as a wife because of no longer being a virgin and therefore social and material destitution. God’s anger at rape is therefore revealed in the providing for her material needs. The payment of 50 shekels of silver was very punitive and would be paid regardless of whether she married the offender. This would be on top of the usual dowry expected at that time. The rape is condemned in these verses, the punishment understandable in the civil context of that time-but not applicable today. A second example is in Numbers, the fourth book of the
Old Testament. In chapter 31, vengeance taken by Have you allowed all the women to live?...They were the ones who…were the means of turning the Israelites away from the LORD…Now kill all the boys. And kill every woman who has slept with a man, but save for yourselves every girl who has never slept with a man. Does this verse imply, as some have suggested, that Moses was encouraging his men to capture virgins for their own pleasure-to rape them? Such an interpretation bears no weight. Moses had previously rebuked them for sexual immorality-such actions would have breached God’s law concerning sexual relations. The civic law governing war at that time allowed for the taking of slaves from the population of defeated people. Female slaves were of value to Israelite women in terms of household tasks. Furthermore, virgins could be fully assimilated into Israeli society through provisions of marriage which provided for a woman’s dignity in terms of mourning, financial and social safeguarding and freedom from slavery (Deuteronomy 21:10-14). Midianite women who were not virgins could not be so assimilated and furthermore were more likely to have been involved in the enticing of Israelite men into sexual forms of worship which violated God’s moral law. God takes rape seriously. He is not silent on it. It is condemned because by its very nature it contradicts God’s moral law concerning sexual relationships. The Bible records rapes by family members, gang rapes and the threat of rape. It records the social consequences of it. It reveals it to be an expression of the sinful nature of mankind and the levels of depravity which are within us all. Were it not that, in His common grace, God provides for some restraining influences in the form of contemporary civic laws and forms of retribution, the numbers of those who suffer from such sin would be magnified even further. The civic law at the time of the Old Testament provided the severest of punishments where it could be proven that rape had occurred-the death penalty. Breaching the moral law of God, the Bible declares that all such sin will be ultimately punished in eternity (Revelation 21:8; 1 Corinthians 6:9-10). When the civic law of a contemporary society provides little protection and or justice for the victims of rape, we can know with absolute certainty that God is angry. . Rape represents the sinful corruption of the God-given gift of sex. It breaches God’s command to love, to be peaceful and to control sexual desires
![]() See http://www.cbmw.org/ for resources which clarify Biblical issues concerning men and women and the roles they adopt.
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